We women can count the number of times that we've heard men say “I hate a nagging woman”,
Every guy hates a nagging woman, so why then do women keep nagging?
We know you do, so y cant we just lay off the nagging?
Well, it’s because you just don’t LISTEN! Yep, LISTENING
Lets go through a typical scenario
Woman: Sweetly coos hey baby, can you add more water in the kettle ,when next you make coffee, so I can have some too. you know I also like coffee in the morning..
Man: My bad sweety, I forgot ..got to rush .. bye
Woman: smiles ,it’s cool*kiss* and leaves
Woman: Baby you forgot to leave some hot water for me again? Haba babe, you know i need coffee too nah
Man: Doh!…I forgot .. I no know wetin dey do my brain(laughs)
Woman: Woman laughs n boils water
Woman: Water don finish again..na wa , u no even send at all, no be me introduce this coffee to you(notice the English language has disappeared)
Man: Haaa darling now.. u come dey vex this kain small thing? Ok no vex love .. omalicha
Woman : smiles .. its like u don’t hear me at all..
Man: I say no vex.. come hear you …* kiss kiss*
Woman : smiles
Woman: For goodness sake.. no water againnnnnnn, kai , I’ve been saying it since …, why do you make coffee for yourself only , is too much for you to make a cup for me? I’ve not even asked you to do that, I just said , please fill up the kettle , so I can also have some.. We both have to rush out of the house.! It’s not just you , I mean, why cant you just get it?
Man: Hahan whats all this? Is that why you are now shouting? Ordinary water???
Woman: it’s not ordinary water, I’ve asked you time and time again to just add a bit more water, but u just don’t listen!
Man: Abege it’s early morning and I don’t have time for this rubbish.. it’s water you are just ranting about like this?
Woman: Oh, I’m ranting now? .. that’s what you always say, but I’ve repeatedly asked you too ,everything I ask you to do , you just disregard, I’m tired(o boy , lecture has started) u just simply don’t care, u cant be bothered..its not all about you ,u know.. I do everything … (and then the list goes on and on)
Man: thinks to himself(just because of water …)
The circle continues and the end result is I’ve got a nagging wife .But what part did you play in getting her there?
The root of the problem Listening
Not listening to each other is the other major reason why people get on each other's nerves and this leads to a communication problem and we all know communication is the major reason why so many relationships and marriages end in failure.